Newly wed frustrated and confused...?

I need help sorting some thoughts out from different perspectives. O.K. Here's the story in a nut shell. Went to college, fell in deep love, didn't work out, chunk of hurting for first couple of months, very slowly started healing, off and on talking for year, cut off all ties and 4 moths later ran into long lost childhood crush, fell in love again but differently, married after 5 months of dating. Married for little over year, have great amazing chemistry, don't fight often, only one problem, sometimes keep thinking I miss my solitude space, and freedom to not have to entertain husband and be with him most of the time, oh yeah and I almost forgot, do not have feeling of attraction to husband, haven't been intimate in almost two months!! Someone please try to explain if been in similiar situation. Yound and unexperienced in dire need of help!!!